My oh my. I was so exhausted yesterday that I went to bed at 8pm..... You'd think i'd be wide awake and refreshed this morning, but no....
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Thank you all so very much for reading over my rants and having such thoughtful suggestions. I spoke to my brother yesterday and I feel a lot better about things. I am still a bit aggravated about how it was handled by "the other side" but I guess that is all part of in-laws.
Dawn was right, my SIL wants a traditional shower and my brother is fine with that since that is what his "bug" wants
He does not want it in December. hat he is going to suggest is an immediate family only deal in December and a regular baby shower in January. That way everyone gets a bit of what they want. (I still think that they are crazy to want 20+ people over soon after they get home, but hey, what do I know? LOL Nah- its all good..... My feelings are based on my experience. i had everyone and their brother at the hospital and after I was home when Scott was born. It was too much, and he and I paid for it with lots of crazy schedules. When I was pg with Cait, I told everyone that no one was coming to the hospital, that they could come afterward for one hour and that I needed the first week home just with my family. But not everyone might feel that way... or they heave to learn it on their own.
As of now, I have the Dec date on my calendar and my fingers are crossed that everything goes smoothly and that in 6 weeks or so, i can hold my new niece!!
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Thank you all so very much for reading over my rants and having such thoughtful suggestions. I spoke to my brother yesterday and I feel a lot better about things. I am still a bit aggravated about how it was handled by "the other side" but I guess that is all part of in-laws.
Dawn was right, my SIL wants a traditional shower and my brother is fine with that since that is what his "bug" wants

As of now, I have the Dec date on my calendar and my fingers are crossed that everything goes smoothly and that in 6 weeks or so, i can hold my new niece!!