What a difference a day makes. It is cold and windy and rainy. Whatever storm came through yesterday, it was a big one. Trees are down around town, a bunch of roads are closed, and power is out. Not here, thankfully, but within 1/4 mile of me in both directions. Whew, we lucked out (esp since the generator is leaking gas again. Phooey!).
Yesterday was quiet for the most part. I had my headphones on and cleaned for my friend in the morning. My brother called me to share his worries about our mom at lunch time. He has some of the same concerns and frustrations as I have but he talks to her like she is the child which she *hates.* I had a lightbulb moment while we were away that I shared with him. She likes to have her things lined up "just so" and has a very odd-to-me way of organizing things. But when she told me that is how she asserts control over chaos, my disordered brain understood. People with anorexia weigh themselves, count calories, refuse to eat as a way of doing the same. He seemed to get it but who knows if he really *gets* it... But it is a start and maybe he can lighten up on her a bit.
Today I am going to catch up on some things here and then Cait and I are heading to take Dilly back to the vet since her abscess is getting bigger again. Poor little thing
I did get the photos off of my camera and my cell and there are some really pretty shots if I do say so myself. I would love to scrap a bit today too.
HAGD, everyone!!
Yesterday was quiet for the most part. I had my headphones on and cleaned for my friend in the morning. My brother called me to share his worries about our mom at lunch time. He has some of the same concerns and frustrations as I have but he talks to her like she is the child which she *hates.* I had a lightbulb moment while we were away that I shared with him. She likes to have her things lined up "just so" and has a very odd-to-me way of organizing things. But when she told me that is how she asserts control over chaos, my disordered brain understood. People with anorexia weigh themselves, count calories, refuse to eat as a way of doing the same. He seemed to get it but who knows if he really *gets* it... But it is a start and maybe he can lighten up on her a bit.
Today I am going to catch up on some things here and then Cait and I are heading to take Dilly back to the vet since her abscess is getting bigger again. Poor little thing
I did get the photos off of my camera and my cell and there are some really pretty shots if I do say so myself. I would love to scrap a bit today too.
HAGD, everyone!!