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Daily Ooo's: Thursday, April 5

faerywings

The Loopy-O
CHEERY O
Happy Thursday my lovelies!!

Last day of school for a while. Spring Break starts for the kids tomorrow. I know they are both really excited. Scott has a job lined up for a few days. Our neighbors are having a gazebo built by their DD's FIL. (get all that? ;) ) and he knows scott from when he helped him when they had to take a huge tree down a few months ago. He asked if Scott wanted to help and get some $$. Scott says that he would love to help, but not for money, just because he likes our neighbors. (Good kids, right?) At the same time, I told him that if it was a jib, then he needed to 1. treat is as such and be responsible and hard working and 2. accepting the money with thanks, but know it is in return for a job well done. Not to mention he is getting my parents old car soon and he is going to need to save up for gas and insurance.
My parents bought a new car and asked if we wanted their old one for Scott who will be driving this time next year. Heck yeah! Until he becomes primary driver, we can keep it minimally insured for $40/month. No way we would be able to afford a decent, well cared for car otherwise.


All School Fair was cool. Its sort of like an Open House/Back to school night but since it is at the end of the year, the kids all do neat projects and displays. I took Cait and her BFF and it is cute to see them together. ;) Too bad that they were racing ahead of me and I was struggling to keep up. Then we watched a few volleyball games, that they run to raise money for a Lymphoma charity. The winner of the kids' teams get to play against the teachers.

Today is (hopefully) going to be a bit more relaxing. We have a phone appt with the new case mgr for our mortgage re-modification. What a nightmare/scam this has been. I swear that the mortgage company is literally losing things on purpose so we give up the request. When we did the addition on our house it was right before Gary got sick. If we had known we would be taking such a financial hit, we would have done something different. Don't know what, we were doing "bare bones" as it was... but regardless.....
Anyway, if the ridiculous mortgage company asks for Gary's "proof" of disability one more time...... along with asking us every month for our Divorce Decree...... gah!!!!:censored:

And that doesn't express the panic I felt when they sent us a letter saying we were in foreclosure (even though we have never been late on a payment). I always joke that my next profession should be meteorologist- because its the only job were you can be so wrong and still have a job- but maybe I would rather be a loan officer for a huge mortgage co. Then I can just send papers to people all willy-nilly just to watch them freak out. It would be like "April Fools" every day! Sweeeeeet!! :madgrin:

hahaahaaaa, I really can be a brat :D

Temptation on Thursday
Anyone have a credit card to lend me? I could really use a vavcation somewhere warm and isolated. :music:
 

LaurieW

lOve the O!
Oh Chris-I'ld say have a great day, but I am guessing- have a productive day. I have to see the dr and from last year which started out successful in weight loss I know my weight has gone up a smidge. However I am back on track- the swimsuit arrived. That inspires me to stay on track with walking and healthy eating. I am off for 4 days so that will be the test. I think I will hang my suit up in the kitchen!! Not sure what I am doing today, but before the weekend is out- taxes will be done. Colder here- probably need to mow lawn too!
 

tanteva

Mistress of Mayhem
Long weekend ahead. DH works short day today - library is closing early, and then he's home Friday to Monday. Tomorrow we have our anniversary. 22 years together - married for 18. The quick math will now tell you we met when we were 5 yo ;)

Plans for today: grocery shopping with sis and mom. Gonna get the last things for the Easter. I'm making Chicken Seuzan (sp?) today - tomorrow I'm not sure ... tacos maybe to make John happy. And on Saturday I'm making "smörgåstårta" (sandwich cake). Sunday I'm hoping there are enough leftovers from the weekend, so I won't have to cook :)

Worried about my son. We had a visit with the school nurse yesterday, and he had lost 12 kg since our last visit 5 months ago. Thats almost 27 lb. Not that he didn't need to lose them - he is down to normal weight now. But since he's not exercising at all, this can only mean he's not eating. We've been wondering about it, but it was a bit scary to see the numbers like that. I thought he was looking thinner cuz he had grown, but he had almost the same height as the last meeting.

I don't think he has any eating disorder really, he's not avoiding candy and snacks and things like that. I just think this is a part of his Aspberger - he's very picky and really not capable to fix food himself. If I don't make it and serve it - he's not eating. Remember my sis - she had to hide food so her boys wouldn't take it when they got home from school, and she'd be left with no dinner that day. I can even prepare a plate for John, leave it in the fridge with a note telling him how to heat it - and he still don't eat. Well ... at least we are aware now, and can keep a eye on it. Will need to make lots of favorite foods for him for a while. (Which basically means taco taco taco taco LOL)
 

faerywings

The Loopy-O
CHEERY O
Personals from yesterday....

Linda S- I think the O was eating everyone's posts. I have gotten into the habit of Ctrl-A, Ctrl-C every couple of paragraphs.
Crap about the re-org. Hope it goes smoothly for you. Wonderful news about the new day care.
I ma really sorry to hear about your uncle. It must be like losing another piece of your mom. :hug:

Nana- I am not an extreme couponer, but I am very careful and organized with them and i really do save quite a bit. Hope that you had a successful trip to the store. Did Mike stay home with the kids? I hope so b/c whenever I had eiother the kids or the hubby with me, I could tack on an extra $20 just for the crap they threw into the cart.

Phyllis- I know it sounds goofy to say it, but good luck with your nose. The unpredictability is scary. I am sure that they did when you went to the ER but did they check your BP? My mom's BP is usually uncontrollable and when it gets dangerously high that is when she gets hers bad.
But wow, you must be so excited to have the grand men come!!

Thank you so much for your kind words and sound advice. I know in my heart that I can only do so much for them. At this point in the game I can't stand over Scott and make him do his HW. But hwen he could be getting B's and C's instead of D's b/c of not handing in HW, it eats at me.
Then I always forget the whole"But you don't look sick." They don't look sick- well, Gary does, but no the kids, not me. I forget that they have been sick a long long time, then when I do I feel guilt from *that.* FYI- I was raised in a traditional Italian-Catholic household where Guilt is one of the Main Food Groups. bwhahaha!!!
At any rate, I really appreciate you, and everyone helping me stay grounded. If you hadn't noticed, I tend to use my O-Fam as my therapist. I tired to talk to Gary yesterday who immediately thought I was attacking him. He feels a lot of guilt too, since he figures that he gave the lyme to us and that he is not fulfilling his role as provider. I can't talk to my mom for the above reasons of making her feel The Guilt. LOL And most people don't get it, partly b/c we don't look sick. You ladies are my captive audience heh!!!

Trudy- hugs and thanks to you too! How did your flowers hold up? My poor daffodils bloomed last week only to have it super cold again and they are now all droopy.
That is really crazy and sad about your sister. I can't imagine how much that must hurt.

Tee-hee-- I had recurring dreams last night of Caitlyn drowning in a flash flood, in the ocean, on a boat. Think Freud would agree I am scared of losing her? I hugged her this morning and told her not to go swimming today :D


Dumpty-- that is 100% true about perfect parents. Hope that you had a fun day, did you get to use all of your coupon winnings at the O yet?
I bet they don't sit around long enough to expire!
Hugs and hope you head/mood are better today!

Stef-- oh my! What happened with your power?? Hope it stays on for good! I hear ya on the "zip." It freaks me out completely that I am not able to provide for their college/post HS lives. Gary first got sick in 2004 and I thought I would have plenty of time to re-group. Here we are 2012, and in Sept I will have both kids in HS. I don't know what we are going to do. The kids get a small amount of $$ each month from Social Security as Gary's dependents. I feel guilty (!!! LOL) that I am not able to put it away for their futures but I have to realize that ATM it is more important that they have a roof over their heads..... :(
Wish I had advice, but I can tell you that you are not alone.....
:hug:


See? Therapy session is over! Thanks as always for listening/reading/pretending to read *giggles*

To all of you who stop in today ::grouphug
 

LaurieW

lOve the O!
Stef & Chris regarding money for college- we did not save money for college- we spent money on everyday and a yearly vacation- were not rich- our kids did without things their friends had- that said- they knew early on that if they wanted to go to college, it meant scholarships and loans- for them- not us- now we did go on as co-signers so they could get better rates- they knew they had to choose a profession that would pay off their loans- it meant if they partied their scholarship away they would pay for it later, it was their money- they appreciate that when we could- we helped out for special things at college- car, insurance, cell phone- it worked for us and our boys don't hate us for it- they appreciate it.
 

LSlycord

Well-Known Member
Good morning! Very quick one. I really need a button that would make time stand still for a day. I promise that I wouldn't abuse the button!

Laurie, congrats on being back on track with the weight loss. I love the idea of hanging the swimsuit in the kitchen. I am down 10 pounds in 5 weeks...but I know that it should be more! I REALLY need to stay focused.

Eva, I am sorry to hear about the eating. Hopefully with you now knowing, it will improve. Tacos, tacos, tacos...sounds good to me. And big congrats on the anniversary!

Chris, I am glad that you had a good time with the girls last night. Special luck with the mortgage company. My only guess is that they are like much of corporate America...with way more to do than people to do it. Having said that, I don't know why we think that it is ok for customer service to be so poor!

And Stef, I worked my way through college. I lived at home where I paid no room or board. My parents bought a new car (that I selected) and let me use it...then when I graduated it was mine. I knew that, much as Laurie described, they did the best that they could to help me and were always my safety net. My oldest niece just graduated from college in December. She paid her own way...worked the whole time she was there...has a job now. She needed someone to co-sign for her rent. Her folks weren't in a position to do it. We did. She needed a safety net and we will do that for her. My kids have small college accounts. At the same time, we are saving for retirement. I'm sure that we won't make a significant dent in the rising costs of college. But we will help however we can. Dang...being a parent brings so much guilt when you really want the best for your kids.

((hugs)) My wish for tonight...that when we finish soccer practice, I have the energy to scrap a page!
 

whatnext

Well-Known Member
Laurie, wish WE would have NOT saved for our kids' college. my husband is a saver. we saved and saved and did without. THEN, then they went to college, he decided that we wouldn't actually SPEND the money we saved for them for college, that we'd just keep that as a financial head start for them while further squeezing the household budget and life style to pay for college out of pocket. what that succeeded in doing was to ensure that there would be NO financial need scholarships because they both had this stash of cash. (i think Princeton actually told my son that, if he went there, not only didn't he need and financial aid, but that, according to the table, he technically should pay MORE than the actual tuition. it was something nuts like that.) so. in today's crazy, upside-down world, saving doesn't seem to the right thing to do. yet my husband just keeps on doing it....

Chris, that whole "but you don't look sick" thing is a drag. i always say to my husband :would you rather have me limping around the house with a pained expression on my face when you're around so you'd KNOW how crappy i feel?? you can't win. honestly, i think it's probably another one of those upside-down things. if you try to pull up your socks and just get on with your day with a good attitude, it doesn't pay. if you lie around moaning and moping all day, people feel bad for you (at least at first) and help out. i say we go on strike and refuse to get out of the recliner for a week!

my blood pressure is sometimes OK and sometimes (situationally) high. it's all over the map, depending on how pissed off i am at any given moment....

good grief. too much complaining. :blah: i have to find something to be pleased about today.

i better stop! Happy Thursday and all good stuff today for all of you.

phylis
 

whatnext

Well-Known Member
hi, Linda. i swear we're on the same schedule. we post almost simultaneously so often! have a happy day!

Eva, did they check you son's blood sugar? (i always come at stuff from a diabetic perspective, since i am one....) hopefuly it's nothing. maybe he just has a girl he's trying to impress and doesn't want to admit it to you! hope things get better and more understandable. parenting is just too complicated.
 

Kiliki

Well-Known Member
good morning...i SLEPT ALL NIGHT!!! lol well kinda i did wake up a few time but nothing that kept me awake...which is good cause i got work today...and im working an extra hour or two today as well...
 

LaurieW

lOve the O!
Phylis - just hop on a plane to cbus- I will pick you up after my dr appt and take you Kingwood Center Gardens where I plan to spend my afternoon housework will wait until tomorrow- it is going to be partly cloudy, cool and I bet the tulips are blooming- anyone else want to hop on for the ride?
 

taxed4ever

Administrator Crazy about the "O"
CHEERY O
Morning sweet "O" ladies... Laurie wait for me I'll go with you!! It sure would be better than going to work!! Another part timer just quit again yesterday, boy they are leaving us in droves!! Does that tell you anything about our Manager :mmph:

Chris - Looks like my flowers made through the frost ok. I hope that you get to have a much more relaxing day today. Glad we can be here for your therapy sessions!! Everyone needs a shoulder every once in awhile, and you know we love you!!

Laurie - Woo Hoo on the new bathing suit, you will be inspired to continue the weight loss, especially if it hangs in the kitchen!! What a great idea!

Eva - Well now you know about your son's lack of eating, you can keep an eye on it! Good thing he has a wonderful mommie like you!

Phylis - Hope you find some happiness today! My FIL is the same way about saving money!! Not sure who he is saving for these days? We keep telling them to enjoy it and go somewhere, but they won't leave the house?? I don't understand!!

LindaS - I'm with you on the button thingy!!

Kristy - Glad you finally got a half decent sleep! Have a great day at work!

Hope I didn't forget anyone, but I am running very late! Ribs are in the slow cooker and it put me behind a bit getting that ready. Last day of work and then the long Easter Weekend Hooray!!! Have a great day everyone! :wave:
 

whatnext

Well-Known Member
Laurie, Kingwood looks AMAZING!!! wish i COULD leave all this behind and go there to tiptoe through the tulips. :becky:
 

~Karen~

Well-Known Member
Designer
Good afternoon ladies! Hope you all have a terrific day.

It looks like winter has come back here! I don't mind though. I totally wasn't ready for upper 80's yet.
 

hondachicc

Well-Known Member
I ladies....

BELLY ACHE for me today.....uuuggghhh!! and IT'S COLD AND RAINING!! double uuuuggghhhh!!


Saved $38 with my coupons yesterday!! everything I got were things I use normally except one thing....and I had been wanting to try it anyway....SOOOO worked out well..... I did see some news about the "extreme couponers".....they are definately cracking down....You probably will not see double coupons....but this was my first attempt at an organized coupon run....HAHA..that sounds funny......I just have to save every way I can....I have kept a ledger on my expenses the last few months and the groceries...especially for the children is OUT OF REASON!!!!!! I have been cutting in many ways since Mike retired....NO MORE PAPER PLATES :Cry:they are considered a luxury!!! :laugh: I laugh...but to me...they are!!!!


SOMEONE RESCUE ME FROM THESE GIRLS PLEASE!!! AARRRRGGGHHH!! THEY ARE WILD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and we can't go out!!!! :Cry:


I have to share this.....I did on Facebook yesterday but it's so funny....while we were in Walmart yesterday...Mike and Savannah went off to "look" while I was getting groceries (good news is, we learned from Cameran...look only...stop buying all those toys HAHA)....I was almost finished when they caught up to me and as they approached I asked Savannah "What did PawPaw get while you were shopping".....she looks at me wide eyed and seriously and says nice and loudly "ASS KILLER" Well I could have melted right there!! :hurt:(in case you don't understand 2 yo speak....that means GRASS KILLER..:biggrin:)
The second part I didn't share on FB.....but she continues to amuze us...or embarrass...however you look at it :pound:.....she says very loudly..."WHO POOPED?" I answered by asking her very softly if she had pooped in her pants and she replies "NOOOOO NANA...PAWPAW DID!!!"
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It could have been worse!!!
She could have said NANA DID!!
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Okay....gotta go take care of a dispute!!!! :-?
 

CookingMyLife

Well-Known Member
WTF? I just wrote a long post, hit enter for a new line...and poof. Sigh...

Well,I guess I'll just say that I had a really busy day yesterday with my volunteer job up at the Detention Center as a library aide. I need to be there at 8am and being ready to leave here before 07:30 is not an easy job. I don't think I am back to my normal get-up time yet with the travel AND daylight savings. 6am used to be my normal but it's closer to 7am. :-( I was going to 'quit' but the new librarian isn't starting til the 28th so I'll stick it out til mid May when she finishes her orientation training. I'm going to go in later, 8:30 or even 9am, and see if there's still stuff to do. 8-9am is the busy time with new things to shelve, books to check back in and inmates needing legal help on their cases, divorces etc. I'm pretty familiar with the legal stuff so I can really be of use there. sigh.

Today I have to get to the grocery for asparagus and Target for a bunch of eggs which they have on sale. Dick is making deviled eggs and I'm doing the asparagus for Easter at family in VA. I think the count is up to about 14 now, incl us and the 5 of them. I went to Costco and Big Lots yesterday while I was at the Detention Center. The two stores are right by which is nice, cause otherwise I wouldn't be shopping there. The drive is 25miles each way, so I try to cram in anything in that vicinity. Sometimes, not often, I even go a bit around the Baltimore Beltway to get to the MsDesserts outlet. It's not as cheap as the old outlet used to be but you can still get some bargains.

Well, after a nice, just warm day yesterday, I am off to go out in the chilly afternoon. Sunny but brisk. Yesterday was sandals weather, today is socks and clogs. Crazy, huh?

cya...Maureen
 

mrstoa

mrstoa
Temptation Thursday - sound off at my Niece (but I won't)

DH finally returned from UK yesterday and I relaxed for the first time in 2 weeks - I just can't cope on my own - and it infuriates me as I always have been able to.

But my family disappointed me big time - niece was supposed to come over and do my hair for me and pick up mail and if she couldn't then her son would - Son came once and last I heard from my niece was a phone call on weekend when she said she would get back to me. She didn't come over at all -

My Aunt recommended a cleaner another big mistake $70 later my bathroom, kitchen floor, outside cupboards and entry hall floor oh,, and a half bathroom cleaned - took her over 3 hours. (honestly our home is not that dirty :)

She never did vacuum, which was important to me but she did say she would come back again (at $20/hr) you can imagine what my response was.

And I'm supposed to avoid stress!

Anyway enough - it's over.. I've always hated to ask for help and this is one of the few times I have -

I've missed you all - but managing the gallery was about all I could do. It's amazing how stress can be debilitating - especially with neuralgia and pain - and BP and....

I will try to read all the posts and play catch up but I need my therapy too, Chris et al. Nana, howled at your stories of the little ones.

It's a relief to talk about it because I can't mention it to DH as he takes it like i'm blaming him and goes into battle mode.

and you are very special to me :love:
and I now feel I can almost breathe again :)

lotsa hugs
 

LaurieW

lOve the O!
evening all- I enjoyed the gardens and will dl my photos tonight- I need to get dinner going as my husband will be home in an hour. Tomorrow- taxes- uploads of layouts- ummm oh yeah- house cleaning.
 
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