Did i ever tell you how much I adore coffee?
Oh Phyllis.... what horrible and scary news. Two close friends.... tons of good thoughts to both of them and to you. 2 years ago I had a biopsy done on suspicious "stuff" on my breast and thankfully it turned out to be calcifications that just need to monitored. (Which reminds me, I have to find out when I need to get back in for my mammo- it has to be overdue...

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Hopefully treatments will work for your other friend and she can beat it.
Hope you got all of your emotions out on those weeds- that always works for me. (((hugs)))
Yup, Maureen, that is how I try to usually view life- everyone had their s***. some people just hide it better than others.
I am so on the same page as you with the homeschooling. It is not right for her, and I would refuse to do it. I told her how I was so shy in HS and people thought I was stuck up. Whne I went to college, I knew that either I was going to stay shy and have no friends or I was going to have to pretend I wasn't shy. And it was hard but it worked out. When she came home from school yesterday, she told me that she thought about what I had said and she talked to 2 girls and has tentative plans to hang out with them next week. yay!
Kristy- thanks hon! And how is all of your fam feeling? All healthy?
Trudy- how are you and your SIL holding up? Any news? ITA with the waiting to be alone to slip away, I hear that so often.
I love my O-fam and would love to meet up with all of you wise woman!!
Yup-- me to Eva. I had a bad administrative experience at my first university where I ended up having to drop out in my senior year. Transferred to a college at home, only to meet my friend who introduced me to Gary

I definitely live by the one door closes, another opens motto.

Sooo happy to hear that life is good for you!!! you deserve that!
M- isn't her tag too cute!?
The book I am reading right now is Mercy, on older Jodie Picoult where a husband kills his cancer-ridden wife at her request. I don't know if I could do that for someone I love but I am selfish enough to want someone to be able to do that for me.
To my non-US friends, I was reading a news artcile that in some Eu countries, there is an option for euthanasia, is that true?