Happy weekend, my friends! Who was able to sleep past 5 am?? Not me!!!
Even though it was dark and rainy, my brain and body said-- it was 5 am, time to wake up! At least I had time to get my mugs of coffee while it was quiet in the house. The dogs started moving about but went back to sleep without another sound, they were smart- no point in waking up if they didn't have to.
The trip to my parents was rough. Normally, I get irritated by their bickering but this time, I am sad for them. They have so many stressful situations going on, so much upheaval and they have never (ever!!) been good at communicating. It's too much for one person to handle let alone both of them at the same time with their health and medical issues. My dad found out yesterday right before I got there that his shoulder replacement is same-day surgery. (his previous was was an overnight stay) My mom is flipping out that they are going to send him home too soon and she isn't; going to be able to help him if something happens. She was yelling at him to call the surgeon to tell him he wants to stay overnight. I was trying to explain that the insurance might not cover an overnight stay unless it is medically necessary.
Meanwhile- she was caught in a loop of deciding to make a clean break with the vascular doctor or only going for a second opinion with a new group. The new group has different schedulers for new patients vs second-opinion patients. I think she needs to make a clean break, she hasn't felt comfortable with the current doc for almost a year.
Meanwhile, meanwhile (LOL), they contacted their homeowner's insurance agent who said they have Cyber Theft Recovery Coverage so back to the police dept to get the report so they could submit a claim. *fingers crossed they can get some of the money back*
Meanwhile meanwhile meanwhile-- my dad is depressed and discouraged about the entire situation and my mom is angry at him and hoo boy,that is making for some nasty undercurrents between them.
On the positive side, we have a loose plan for what they want me to do around the house. I'm going down on Tuesday and will spend the day helping them clean the stuff they can't reach. Or shouldn't try to reach :/
Off to the FP this morning- hopefully, it won't be too busy since it's pouring today. More flood watches all over the area. The hike is tomorrow and we were given map coordinates for the directions to the parking lot. It was on the way to my parents' house so I checked it out and I am really glad I did. I would have gone to the wrong trailhead if I didn't use the coordinates.
I could use some good thoughts for my parents if you have any to spare. Thanks so much!!
Have a fab day/weekend!