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0925AJWk4-Commitment

0925 Week 4 {Commitment} found here: https://oscraps.com/community/threads/september-art-journaling-challenge-week-4-commitment.42859/

“Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” Matthew 19:4-6
“...from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’
‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” Mark 10:6-9
In these passages, Jesus is answering a question from the Pharisees about divorce, referencing that God created humanity as male and female and that a man and woman are meant to become "one flesh" in marriage. Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” Genesis 2:24 says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
The phrase "what God has joined together" acknowledges God's active role and sovereignty in uniting a couple in marriage. God created marriage, and Jesus is saying man is not to interfere with or divide what God has united. The verses are a command for people not to separate what God has united. It serves as a reminder of the permanence and sanctity of the marriage bond, which is meant to last until death.
The decision to marry is not a decision to be made hastily. In the Bible, "one flesh" refers to a profound, indivisible union between a man and a woman in marriage, signifying their physical, emotional, spiritual, and intellectual oneness. Stemming from the creation account in Genesis, it means that the married couple becomes a single entity, surpassing their previous individual relationships and forming a new, unified life together. This concept extends beyond mere sexual intercourse to represent a complete bond where the couple complements and fulfills each other in every aspect of their lives.
That being said, I do believe there are Biblical reasons that allow for divorce. The Bible outlines two primary grounds for divorce, supported by Jesus and the Apostle Paul: sexual immorality (or "fornication," as stated in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9) and abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (as outlined in 1 Corinthians 7:15). While some interpretations include other factors like abuse or addiction, these two are the explicitly stated exceptions to the permanence of marriage......
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In Matthew's Gospel, Jesus states that a man who divorces his wife, "except for sexual immorality" (porneia), causes her to commit adultery. The Greek word porneia encompasses a range of sexual sin, including adultery, incest, and other forms of unlawful lust. This exception gives the innocent spouse the right to seek a divorce when their marriage vows are broken through sexual sin.
The Apostle Paul addresses the situation of a Christian married to a non-Christian in 1 Corinthians 7:15. He states that if the unbeliever chooses to leave the marriage, the believer is "not bound" and can let the separation happen. This means if a non-Christian spouse abandons the marriage and initiates a separation, the Christian spouse is free to divorce and is not obligated to remain in a broken relationship. The Bible presents marriage as a sacred and permanent covenant, so divorce is never to be taken lightly. Even with these biblical grounds, reconciliation and forgiveness are always the preferred first steps.
Some traditions and individuals consider other factors, such as abuse, abandonment, or addiction, to be valid grounds for divorce, though these are not explicitly stated in the core scriptures as exceptions to the permanence of marriage. Chronic neglect of physical needs or failure to provide shelter for the family can also be a form of material abandonment, breaking the covenant's implied promise of care and provision. A consistent pattern of abusive behavior is a grave sin that violates the covenant's commitment to love, cherish, and protect one's spouse, thereby breaking the covenant.
“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” is an old saying that I think can be applied to the commitment made when we marry. If there is any doubt whatsoever in getting married, I think the wedding should be put on hold for a time at the very least, until the doubts are erased or worked out. Once the marriage commitment is made before God and man, we need to do whatever we can to be true to that commitment.
As a Christian wife, I am accountable to God for the promises I made to my husband when we repeated those marriage vows to one another. And unless I have Biblical grounds, there will be no divorce in my future, God willing!

Ephesians 4:32; 5:1, 2, 33 - “…..be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you…..be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma…..let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”

Credits:
The Alchemy Curated ToolKit | Vintage Finds & Artistic Elements No.1 by Rachel Jefferies
Messy Marks: Date Stamps 2025 PLUS BONUS by Rachel Jefferies
Wanderlight | Stamps by Joyce Paul Designs
Wanderlight | Kit by Joyce Paul Designs
A Beautiful Day (elements) by Joyful Heart Designs
Muses (one) by Joyful Heart Designs
Designer(s) Used:
  1. Joyful Heart Designs
  2. Joyce Paul Designs
  3. Rachel Jefferies
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Beautiful blending and use of the elemets, Vicky. Tha amount of journaling you did is awesome. I'm not a big journaler, so you always impress me with yours.
 

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