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Why should I cry for you?

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I'm coming up on a year since my dad passed away. He was a difficult person to love, especially during my teenage years. I spent much of my adult life being low-grade angry/resentful towards him. It was only in the last couple of years that I softened a bit, realized he was a flawed person (just like me) and accepted the relationship that we had even if it wasn't the one I hoped for.

The Lynn Grieveson Typebox template really struck a chord with me because it reminded me of the curio box he built for me when I was a kid. I've already used it for one layout about him. For this one I was able to incorporate a picture of a sunset in New Mexico from our roadtrip last year with a smaller picture of me and him when I was a toddler. The words come from Sting's song "Why should I cry for you?" which is thought to be about his difficult relationship with his own father.

The only other thing I added was a thread graphic from Lynn Grieveson/Rachel Jefferies "The Past is Another Country" kit.
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  1. Lynn Grieveson
  2. Rachel Jefferies
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Photos are my own
A difficult topic! It seems to me, however, that you've made peace with it and now accept your relationship. Perhaps you can tell him again at his grave what you would have wanted from him. Try to forgive and heal. Your page makes your father's importance very clear. The tree takes up most of your site; that's the strength and kindness you would have wanted from him, isn't it? You've told your story beautifully.
 
A difficult topic! It seems to me, however, that you've made peace with it and now accept your relationship. Perhaps you can tell him again at his grave what you would have wanted from him. Try to forgive and heal. Your page makes your father's importance very clear. The tree takes up most of your site; that's the strength and kindness you would have wanted from him, isn't it? You've told your story beautifully.
Thank you for your kind and insightful comments...I don't typically scrap about "heavy" topics but sometimes it's cathartic to get some things out of my head.
 

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