It is tradition to send cards to friends, acquaintances and family at Christmas and New Year. All well intended, but we want to get rid of it, because it is actually a big charade. If you get cards from people you didn't expect a card from, you quickly send a card back. We think sending an e-mail is a weak option. But what's the best way to stop? Doesn't it look strange or rude if I do get a card and don't send anything back?Won't these people wonder why they suddenly didn't get a card from me?